“Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil; cling to what is good.” Romans 12:9 As we seek to understand God’s way for us in the midst of an abusive relationship, there are times when the Scriptures can provoke us to doubt or fear the heart of the One who loves us. The … Continue reading Suffering Love: A Redemptive Force or an Enabling One?
“You have heard it was said,‘love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” Matthew 5:43-44 This is a powerful verse that is often used to compel victims of abuse to remain with their abusers. The pretense is that no matter how we are … Continue reading Love Your Enemies?
The Church that Kept Me There Suffering Love: A Redemptive Force or an Enabling One? The Truth About Reconciliation I Know How the Blind Man Felt Faith Was Never Meant to be an Add-On Reject the Counsel of the Doubters: The Wicked Still Walk Among Us Believers Considering Divorce Praying for the Right Thing My … Continue reading Faith-Based Resources:
One of my readers referred me to Marriage Builder Weekly, a series of weekly articles designed to “save your marriage,” headed up by Jimmy Evans at Marriage Today ministry. Over the past several weeks, I have responded to a few of the articles to inform the writer (presumably Mr. Evans) of my areas of disagreement, with regard to … Continue reading Response to Marriage Builder Article, “How to Change Fear”
“Without consultation, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors they succeed.” Proverbs 15:22 We know there is wisdom in the counsel of many. Even in the midst of overwhelming heartache and confusion, we may have some vague idea of what we want or need to do, but out of a sincere desire to do the right … Continue reading Wisdom in the Counsel of Many?