One reader wrote:

"Cindy, I just finished your book. By far, it is, hands down the very best resource I have EVER read on this topic. I literally want to send it to everybody. I am going to tell my counselors about it too - both books. There is only one book that has ever spoken to my heart and life more than yours, and it's the Bible..."

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"Reformulating the Christian Marriage Counseling Model Where Abuse Is Involved" is an easy-to-read, insightful resource that takes an in-depth look at the common Christian counseling model, identifies its weaknesses where abuse is involved, and presents a new model based upon sound biblical truth and common sense.

The book provides vital insight into the foundational "God hates divorce" doctrine which fuels many counselors' primary objective of saving the marriage at all costs.  What many counselors fail to recognize is that this doctrine and others (which I address) empower abusers and keep their victims in bondage, fearful of being abandoned by God.

It is hard to imagine that many victims have been shamed, shunned and even excommunicated from their churches for removing themselves and their children from toxic, ungodly homes.  Something is terribly wrong with this picture, and it's time to address the manner in which Christian counselors and believers as a whole respond to abuse and its victims within the body of Christ.

This book is ideal for victims seeking direction as to what they may want to look for in a counselor and the counseling process.  It is also a valuable resource for pastors, church leaders and counselors and would similarly be suitable for faculty and students at Christian colleges and seminaries.

We must be willing to identify the wolves among us and rise in defense of those who are being victimized in their own homes.  In acknowledging the sanctity of marriage, the truth is that a marriage's substance is of far more importance than its status.

"Reformulating the Christian Marriage Counseling Model Where Abuse Is Involved" is available as a paperback for $14.95 and as a Kindle book for $4.99.

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